In dealing with people, the most important thing is to be of good character. Only in this way can we be a reliable person, have principles and bottom lines, and get along with people sincerely, without being hypocritical and cunning.
How to get along well with friends?
People should learn to empathize with each other.
The word empathy is easier said than done. You should always remind yourself to think more from the other person's standpoint and be a little angel who will think about others.
Be more tolerant of each other.
Tolerance is one of the most needed things between friends. A person who can tolerate others must have many friends, and don't cause minor conflicts over trivial matters.
Treat each other sincerely.
Friends should be honest with each other, only in this way can friendship last forever.
Friends talk more from the heart to promote mutual understanding.
Talking more between friends can not only reduce conflicts, but also enhance friendship. Many female friends' friendships are also built through the process of sharing little secrets and talking.
The most important thing between friends is communication.
Principles and methods of effective communication.
Prioritize communication.
People who value communication spend their time communicating. Practices include being alone, turning off cell phones and the Internet to block outside distractions. Allow enough time and energy to allow those involved in the communication to exchange more information and increase mutual understanding.
Establish and maintain eye contact.
In information dissemination, only 38% are speech, 7% are text, and 55% are received by eyes.
Ask open-ended questions.
If you want to know how the other person feels and thinks about an issue, use open-ended questions such as "How do you feel about...?"
Face-to-face communication.
In face-to-face communication, you get not only the other person's reply, but also other information such as the other person's behavior, tone, habits, etc. At the same time, you can also pass information to each other in the same way.
Trust that you have your own judgment and know how to get along with your friends.